Dating is rough, and at times, it may even feel like everything and everyone makes it harder for a girl to find Mr. Sadly, there are times where our singledom may be due to our natural tendencies to self-sabotage in the worst possible ways. We get desperate. To make matters worse, we tend to feed into our own desperation, so it ends up turning into a vicious cycle.
Self-sabotage is generally an unconscious behaviour and it is your sub-conscious mind keeping you safe from being hurt again.
People will respond to this in a variety of ways, most commonly placing the blame on surface pressures, but it's actually the way we speak to ourselves about dating that could be the real answer to this query. Self-compassion and self-awareness are the first steps in attracting and developing a positive relationship. Self-sabotaging behaviours are usually based on fear and while people adapt these as a means of self-protection, often they can actually prevent dating success rather than guaranteeing it.
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